Are there any 'mature' mothers, grandmothers, etc, or old fashioned moms out there who didn't spank? - mature mothers mastibating
I ask because I am a mother of 6 and a grandmother to 3 clock and grew up in the production of a stroke, in which all the other children without a thought. However, I did not do me like he wanted to think my children about their own behavior, and has often been accused, too liberal, and let my children are spoiled children. However, and of course I'm biased, I think my children have also come to adult education for their children to never be in trouble, all the work etc, etc. adapted
I wonder, someone else had a similar experience?
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Mature Mothers Mastibating Are There Any 'mature' Mothers, Grandmothers, Etc, Or Old Fashioned Moms Out There Who Didn't Spank?
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My parents have 10 children together in the years 1950 to 1980. Never lost any of us in all.
We are all very good, not jail time, for jobs, help our communities, etc. ..
Yes, have.I am a single mother with a 19-year-old and have worked boy.Who will be raised college.If beatings with a belt. My father loved me and did what he thought was doing best.Sometimes parents what they were doing when they young.They have the feeling had become so great, why things are changing not the generations.Now and future generations . But violence should be after 4 years no one will be lost. I opened my own if he wants to do things such as walking on the street, but I think it was the only way to get your attention.But when they reach 5 or 6, U understand things better and to punishment. I changed generations of faith in my family.Now my son will not beat his son, if he has a family.
My mother did not receive "Whoopin ', but my father. All my grandparents. All my brothers did not / do, and my daughter is too. Non-violence, disciplined enough to know that they are responsible and respect them.
Their children have responded positively to other types of discipline, but not others. How ever you do, make sure your children know that they are loved, and we must follow the rules.
Guess I'm not partial or anything.
Yes! When I was growing up, the wooden spoon has been used a lot! I decided if I was my daughter, the last thing he wanted someone he loved so much, must be taken! Even before that, with my nephews and nieces who does not. The only time I did, I felt awful! Now my daughter is grown up and, apart from the occasional hit in the ass to emphasize a point to not enough (to attract attention to your question) never. It is set to mature, well finished w / 2 runs in the school last year and has a good job. There are real problems that are developing well. (In addition to being a bit like a tramp!) No drugs, nothing important at all .. So much love. I think I can not love the mess. But yes, I am the youngest member of my family and my brothers thought it was too lenient. Now that they're older people who think for my style .. placed
I am 55 years old and was abused as a child.
I have 6 children, nearly 28 to just 8, and never touched so much as a hand. Our children are or were good students, respectful and well behaved. We discovered early on that to speak to explain why something did not offer alternatives, and explain what would happen if it happens again, it was a discipline very effective.
We have no grandchildren, but our oldest starts to work and plan to marry next spring, maybe in a few years ....
I think my husband and me quite mature. Do not hit our children but we were both still beating. My husband and I are very young, but still high in a society where spanking is simply "do what you do." We have four children and one on the way and we never had to beat him. Our children misbehave, and we are very strict with them, but I put my hand to my children only because I believe that hitting is "the quickest way" to manage them. They SWAT few times, and finished in a few seconds. I think the only slightly longer (10-15 minutes) to create a longer lasting effect.
I am not likely to be regarded as mature as a mother, "because I'm too young to marry and have children (in the opinion of some), but come from a family who does not believe in spanking. My grandmother and grandfather have always been against it, like you, want to stimulate the thinking, discussion forums and growth. I would say that all my children, grandmothers and grandchildren often very narrow. I know people think my grandparents are a bit liberal, but if they do not really do anything with a beat up his decision. I think it's wonderful, healthy family, were happy, successful and not to spank. I know there are some people who believe spanking (with or without specific guidelines)D, which is good, but not the opinion of my family.
I am the youngest of the 3 i, 23 My older brother is 38 and my sister's 30th I told my father, my brother once a swat in the church and the last time that one of us was even a spanking. My parents were spanking emecly. Probably more on board, probably why I could not for us. My brother was in 69 Brown and his sister of 76 in those days all I spank. OE-I to the turn in 83, I believe that the parents are not always decided. But I'm not sure that it is the best option, and I think the 3 of us agree on this point. My brother is a gentleman with a major and minor, with 3 children, and he beats his children, even if it was not raised with. My sister is very good ... Agency money was not there to go to school ..... and a daughter and aon the street and noticed that he believed in spanking when he met me when she looked at me. I also believe that I was not raised with him. I believe that in the back pocket to be, if their absence .... If I beat my child if I feel good! I'm not just throwing in the option. Is we were better than I ... We are all adults, but great in our youth, we got our fair share of problems .. My two brothers were arrested at a party and my brother a lot and who knows what else. The guys just werent terrible was his discipline and did not know and could do what we wanted ... all had high expectations of us and therefore can. Is to treat your child beating? I am not sure whether IConcept, but in my opinion, it seems unfair to your child if you are good an option in the vicinity in a manner to be for them when they get older and adults. The way I thought like a child in a manner that is not because I was not added to beat ... I thought, "if you say do not go do something while I'm not easy to" them very well and things from there, but sometimes, even if it sucks, you kids need, like fel Sercure enough so that they do something instead of saying, simply bleac hands approach me at the time seemed eaier spanking .. not result in the parents really want to spank your child the courage to do so. It is easy to say "their country" or "Go to your room or Sentec .. but also the isolation of IUR often when the child why they are acting because they care and not to yield to the wish of his mistake, even if its negitive ... Balencie only ..... Spanking positive for 100 "I love you, and we can not go wrong.
Sorry ill cry now!
Well, I do not know exactly what you ask, but I'm relatively new mom (4 years, 6 months) and I am absolutely against knocks. If the needs of my 4 years right if we are not physical, and it works.
My father took me and my brother lost - never - and in my opinion, has adapted well, responsible adults.
Sometimes, the Union is not correct.
This question made me think. I have my ** came when I was little, my mother, grandmother, aunts, older cousins, etc. My mother's older sister and her son made 20 years ago (usually because we have something that did nothing ), but now, at the age of 51, a 9-year-old son, that she has not met all ---- and raise hell. Is it because they get a spanking? I do not know. Should I knock? Hell yeah, if the situation calls for it.
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